"Everyone has three sides that come into play when looking for love. What we think we want, what we need and what we actually go for." -- Kelly Numair -- Director of the San Francisco South Bay
How many times have you heard someone say the person they were in love with wasn't their normal type? And how many times have you heard there's no one good out there? This, my fellow love-seekers, is the difference between getting out of our own way and continuing to use Cupid's arrow to shoot ourselves in the foot.
You're your own worst enemy. Just deal with it. You don't have to feel bad; we all are. It's those of us that come up with the right love potion of what has to be altered and what can stay that find that sweetest thing we don't even know we're looking for.
That's where Matchmaking comes in.
Everyone should have that friend that knows us inside out and will tell us when we're behaving like a donkey's patoot. Welcome to Matchmaking. A Matchmaker gives us so much more than what you will find online. A Matchmaker is a professional that will not only tell us how we're hurting ourselves but also help us fix it. They have no bias involvement with our personal lives and sift through the rubbish while keeping a higher level of quality with those we meet and our experience as a whole. In addition, we only work with clients who are serious about finding a good match, whether it be for finding a steady relationship or for marriage.
Recently a therapist confided in me about how her fears for the horror stories she thought would come from counseling war refugees turned to bewilderment when their stories focused on romantic relationships instead of the death, war and loss she expected. It's easy to forget how important this aspect of life is in a culture that teaches us that independence is strength. We consult experts for life's other big decisions. How could it not be strong to invest in becoming better, stronger and wiser here too? And what better way to invest than through a good 'ol fashioned Matchmaker?
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